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Fox News links National Day of Reason to Holocaust.

“You know the Age of Enlightenment and Reason gave way to moral relativism. And moral relativism is what led us all the way down the dark path to the Holocaust.” — Some idiot on Fox.
It’s like a living monument to Godwin’s Law.

Should a Muslim man marry an atheist woman? GRN grabs the rebound!

Dear Prudie,
My girlfriend is a beautiful, funny, and intelligent young woman and I’m very lucky to have her in my life. We met in college, we know each other’s families, and are each other’s best friends. I’ve been with her for almost two years and I would like to start a life with her. There’s only one issue—as a Muslim, I feel my future wife has to believe in God. I’m not the strictest of Muslims, I occasionally drink and don’t follow everything written in the Quran, but my girlfriend is an atheist. She says she’s open to believing, but that is a requirement in order for our marriage to be valid within Islam and so that we can marry in a mosque. I want that not only for religious reasons but because it’s a cultural and familial tradition. We’ve talked about her converting but it’s usually ended up with us brushing it aside or with her being hurt because she says I can’t love her for who she is. Of course I love her and want to be with her but I also want my future marriage to be validated by my religion and accepted by God. But I don’t want to pressure her into converting, either. What do I do?

—Feeling Lost

Hang on, Prudie, I got this one.

Dear Feeling Lost,

Your religion is a sham and its using you to further its self. You see, like any other institution, religions’ number one goal is the preservation and promulgation of the institution itself. So Islam, which is just a corrupt institution, just like the fast food industry or child-sweat-shop-made sneakers or corporate radio. And, like those industries, Islam is trying to make a customer out of your girlfriend and a more loyal customer out of you. Institutions do this through advertising. “Beef! It’s what’s for dinner!” The point of this ad is, ‘hey, you’re gonna eat dinner, you gotta eat beef.” It’s inserting itself into your life by implying that the normal, default position on dinner is that it’s a beef-centric meal. Other advertisements appeal to a sense of individualism. “The Pepsi Generation!” You know, you’re young, you’re cool, you drink a Pepsi, you don’t drink what the old man drank, you wanna be cool, right? I mean, you want to be a contributing member to the right culture (in this case youth culture) right? Finally, there are also ads that appeal to your sense of responsibility. Insurance companies are particularly fond of this one, you know, “are you in good hands?” It makes you think, ‘oh, fuck, if I get crushed by a meteor tomorrow, who’s gonna buy little Jane that baseball mitt she’s been wanting and how will junior afford ballet lessons on my partner’s measly salary? I better buy that insurance!’

Religion is all of these combined. It appeals to your sense of normalcy (phrases like “good Christian” don’t just assume the person’s morality, it also implies they’re familiar and trustworthy), it appeals to your sense of individualism (You don’t say, ‘I follow the Islamic faith,’ you say ‘I am a Muslim,’ it’s part of your self-identity.) and it appeals to your sense of responsibility as your question displays “I also want my future marriage to be validated by my religion and accepted by God” You love this woman, but you’re being irresponsible for not clearing it with God, even though you love her and the way you feel isn’t changing, you feel compelled to ask some kind of permission to accept the way you already feel. (Sidenote: Just curious if you’re aware of what God does to Muslims who marry atheists or other non-Muslims. If you guessed “nothing because there is no God,” you’re correct!)

See, Islam wants to wrap itself around important life events so that you keep coming back, a loyal customer. Like a smoker. When tobacco companies started facing advertising regulations, they upped the addictive chemical ratio in their products in order to keep their customers coming back. Religion arranges itself around the important milestones in people’s lives to keep you coming back. Births, puberty, weddings, funerals, and of course holidays. They’re times you’re compelled to visit the institution out of some misplaced guilt your parents instilled when you were young because it was instilled in them and so on and so on and turtles all the way down.

Want my advice? No?! Well, fuck it, I’m gonna give it anyway. Break the cycle of addiction to a corrupt institution bent on dominating people’s social structure and abandon Islam altogether. Be a humane parent and allow your children to grow up without the terror your parents and their religion imposed upon you and I know you’re terrified, because your question basically demands something unreasonable, that your wife lie to a deity (by saying she believes it when she obviously doesn’t) who you can’t even be sure exists, for whom you have so little faith exists that you disobey the rules he supposedly laid out (because you drink and shit). Asking for your wife to pretend to be a different woman to appease your superstition shows your weakness as a critical thinker, but it’s not to late for you. Step one: Never set foot in a mosque again. Step two: Throw your qu’ran away. Step three: Ignore other religions, they’re the same shit with different labels. (You can’t swear off Marlboros and start smoking Kools and tell people you quit smoking) Step Four: Enjoy freedom.
Source : Slate

A lot of you may have been hearing about the Olympic Park Bombings lately

I thought I might take this opportunity to explain the 1996 bombing in Atlanta to younger readers who may not be familiar. The story goes like this: Richard Jewell was a police officer, but on this day he was working for a private security firm. He discovered the bomb. He alerted the police. He personally escorted people to safety. There’s no telling how many lives he saved. Two were killed. When the police were investigating, they naturally had to consider him a suspect like they would consider anyone in his position a a suspect. However, it somehow leaked that the FBI were investigating him. It was routine, but that wasn’t noted in the media reports, which indicted this guy immediately although no official charges were brought. His name remains synonymous with the incident to this day.

MEANWHILE, the actual bomber, Eric Rudolph, a right-wing white-nationalist, Christian fundamentalist who ranted about hating abortion and homosexuals and socialism and even John Lennon, would go on to murder many more, bombing two abortion clinics and a lesbian bar. He’s been lauded as a hero in the Christian terror/anti-abortion movement. He’s serving 4 consecutive life sentences.

Richard Jewell was honored by the city of Atlanta in 2006, a year after Rudolph plead guilty. Jewell died the next year of heart disease at age 44.


Oh, look, a nice family movie about the reality of raising a child in a traditional, born-again Christian household. Praise Jesus! Hollywood’s getting it right this time.

mrs-neildegrassetyson:

godlessmen:

How I mock religious bigots that visit our campus.

This makes me wish I also had a unicorn mask for when the zealots show up at my campus..

Doing it right

mrs-neildegrassetyson:

godlessmen:

How I mock religious bigots that visit our campus.

This makes me wish I also had a unicorn mask for when the zealots show up at my campus..

Doing it right

Source : godlessmen

Pluto's Gate to Hell uncovered in Turkey →

Please tell every Bible literalist who thinks the discovery of locations or characters from the Bible prove it true, that this discovery obviously then must prove every Greek myth true.

see-to-sea:

I hate how much I struggle with Chastity. I hate how I struggle to keep it. I wish I had more LDS friends irl to talk too. I’m feeling pretty guilty and unworthy. And I feel like I shouldn’t, idk.


Help

“I’m feeling pretty guilty and unworthy.” This is how religion intends to make everyone feel by associating normal human responses to shame and guilt. The church, especially the Mormon church, chooses natural, healthy stimulants like sex and tries to distance you from then to make you reliant on the church to achieve any degree of happiness or satisfaction. However, sexual feelings are not something you can really control. You can suppress, but you can’t change the fact that you want to have sex. For the church,this creates a system perpetual dependence. You need the church to satisfy you and to keep you from doing something the church has told you is bad and you need the church as a place of contrition once you inevitably fail to meet their demands. It’s a perfect scam. You’re being used! You shouldn’t let this institution make you feel anyway at all. Whether they’re making you feel guilty or like you have some great purpose or whatever they’re just manipulating you.

Source : see-to-sea

Pat Robertson tells his huge viewership, in the midst of a recession, that if they go bankrupt, they should just start sending their money to, where else, Pat Robertson! Why? because if you give to God, you’ll get back 30 fold! And, of course, God wants you to give to Pat Robertson. Pat Robertson said so!


I know there’s a strong argument for ignoring the Westboro Baptists altogether, but I think there’s a good argument for why we should pay really close attention to them, especially now. They’re a kind of above ground cult. They really offer a great insight into what all cults are like and, I think, they’re foundation in basic Biblical principles shows just how similar so-called mainstream religious practices are to cult tactics. Now, as a bunch of members of the church are escaping, a lot of light is being shed on them. Here’s a video of one of the escapees discussing her religious abuse.

eversolea:

Yesterday I visited my grandma in the hospital and a friend of hers from church showed up, a guy named Sam.
My veganism came up and my grandma explained it to him well “She doesn’t eat anything that comes from anything that had a brain.” He said “Why not?
Oh boy.
I said “Ethics.” With a smile to try and be like ‘Thats all, okay?’
He said “Elaborate.” In this really condescending way.
So I just said “I don’t think its right to eat something that can feel pain, or creatures that love their children.”
He said “The Bible says animals are fine to eat though.”
I said “Well, I think that is wrong.”
It was like I spit on his mother or something.
He asked where I went to church, I said nowhere, he asked when I wanted to start again. I stuttered for a second, I was thrown off, but said I don’t plan on attending again. Ever. He then went on to tell me that they’ll pray for me at church and if I find a way into college again then its because of them and I’ll have to come back. I said “No, thank you, I’ll work and get into college through my own means.”
This time I think I shot his mother.
This is why I left the church and soon after left religion.
Emotional blackmail and poor justifications for calling me out on my lifestyle?
I’m sure that’s just what Jesus would do

In this example of the harm of religious belief, a flabbergasted, myopic old man talks down to a bright young woman. Religion teaches people to behave this way. It’s like a method of soft bullying. The presumption that she couldn’t get into college without some magical rain dance is absurd and offensive.

Source : eversolea